Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july

We agree with you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let your ex glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I’ve done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply anyone i am.

Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my solution to attempt to communicate with her, but she will turn her focus from the LW being an issue to the guy being the issue, which is what is going on if she sets the record straight with the girlfriend, hopefully.

Katie July 17, 2012, 9:50 am

And in addition, just just exactly what would you want to bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into one another really and truly just a coincidence?

Nadine 17, 2012, 9:52 am july

I’m able to realise why you’ll believe that means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We see the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, perhaps perhaps perhaps not the ex-BF relationship that is current. Thats simply a complicator. The LW is only able to get a handle on her very own actions, and overlook the ex-BF calling and being inconvenient. New GF to his relationship is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls need not be buddies at all. It might you should be yet another url to the man for the LW, who’s attempting to cut psychological ties.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july

Thats a point that is good sure!

Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am

Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I familiar with be buddies using this band of dudes whom once had such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy i’d get really surprised, cos they seemed so normal to me on them after a couple of weeks and? Then it ended up being realised by me personally ended up beingn’t the girls, its the people. In addition to girls had been all people that are just normal, you realize, desired to determine if that they had a boyfriend or not…….

Katie 17, 2012, 10:04 am july

Yea. Its love, as soon as that takes place enough times- what’s the denominator that is common? YOU MAY BE!!

I do feel detrimental to this GF that is new. She deserves to possess a guy’s attention that is full. And she deserves a man who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her he nevertheless dreams intensely about her and stuff. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW since the man is telling her a lot of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.

Nadine 17, 2012, 10:09 am july

I’m bad she needs to look out for herself for her too, but. Its hard being the girlfriend that is first a long relationship, but thats really why a lot of people go into all of them with their eyes available. Oh and the man has to“ stop droppingBut We have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real means the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, perhaps you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”

Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july

Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands he is just looking for a reaction everytime he says it that he has a GF. He wishes the LW become like “well I don’t care I will still blow you” or “Dump that skank, and come back to me” if you have a GF,

Katie July 17, 2012, 10:27 am

Yea, its like whenever i was in senior school and me personally and my boyfriend would separation almost every other week, and he would “accidently” we would fight and get back together text me or something just so.

Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 2:45 pm

@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and acquire right straight back together”

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am

I’ve said right here a great deal, if the man whips out of the word “crazy” I operate one other method. I understand therefore men that are many utilize that word to full cover up because of their dickish behavior.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am

I don’t understand why individuals would phone somebody crazy into the beginning. I simply state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The very fact which you place a “crazy” label upon it, makes me think you might be the one which loves to stir the muck.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am

Additionally, you could be kinda crazy as well if you are willing to call someone crazy, wouldn’t that mean?

Rilooyah 17, 2012, 4:44 pm july

Therefore real! As soon as the” that is“crazy away, Im operating one other means. I do believe it had been stated above- once you attract the crazy, the denominator that is common constantly YOU, friend.

Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:21 am july

To be honest, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he’s in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about any of it too, yet somehow she continues to respond to this dudes calls despite the fact that he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of that bull shit.

Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july

Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk for this woman since your simply likely to cause drama. You must just recognize he’s maybe not your boyfriend as well as if you nevertheless like their attention, the reality that you realize he has got a gf is causing you to a bad man in this too.

Katie 17, 2012, 10:35 am july

That is a point that is great you dudes. I didnt think about it like this.

So LW, them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (i love you, eljay) said, someone has to be the adult in this situation if you really do respect their relationship and wish. If he is maybe not ready to be, you should do it.

Painted_lady 17, 2012, 2:17 pm july

Amen bestie – we trust you about talking into the gf. That knows exactly what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their chatting so frequently, but whilst the relationship is none of these company, the fact that the LW in addition to girlfriend that is new met now i believe permits the LW some freedom. That I had heard about and wanted to get along with (I’m going to assume that the LW wants that? ) and it went horribly, I might reach out and go, hey, I’m so sorry that went badly if I had been in a situation where a friend brought someone around. She does not fundamentally need to state, “Hey, which means that your boyfriend happens to be saying _____ for me and he’s the main one calling, and then he explained you had been fine using this, ” just “Hey, I’m so sorry that went defectively, I became underneath the impression you had been fine with this being buddies, but i simply recognized I’m perhaps maybe perhaps not fine with your being friends either, therefore it’s no problem anymore. ”

Kerrycontrary 17, www.datingmentor.org/singleparentmeet-review/ 2012, 9:37 am july

I’dn’t speak to the gf about it. I would want is their ex of 3 years reaching out to me if I were dating someone for two months the last thing. And simply to share with you you respect her relationship? I might think you had been bullshitting me personally and head that is playing. Just just Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex lover you don’t wish to hear from him for some time, then keep them alone. Actually they probably won’t workout because you might be nevertheless within the image (which does not do great things for a fresh relationship), but allow them work that out on their own.

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:39 am

Oh in addition, if we had been the latest girlfriend and my bf and I also went into their ex at a club i might additionally need that individuals leave straight away. It is therefore uncomfortable. Everybody pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay if your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have actually become okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of three years.

Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:28 am july